It’s just too hard!

What is the hardest thing that you have ever done in your life? What is your major accomplishment that you can hang your hat on? Whatever it is…I submit to you that the accomplishment was hard. It was tough. But there is something that was tougher than achieving the overall goal that you set out to accomplish. What is that you ask? It’s change.

Before you can achieve any worthwhile goal in your life, there are three things that you must realize before you set out on the long arduous journey. First, you have to make the decision of what you want to achieve. Second, you have to be willing to change to become the type of person who is deserving of the goal and capable of achieving it. Third, you must never give up on yourself.

So, why is it so hard to change? Well, the answer is in life itself. You see, life is like a mirror. In everyone’s life there comes a time when we realize that we need to change based on the feedback we have received. Life teaches us lessons. For instance, if we want to be in a solid relationship, we have to change to make our relationship solid. You just don’t end up in a good relationship because you want one (or desperately need one). You end up with good a relationship, money, and the better things in life because you are changing yourself to achieve those things.

That may mean talking to a Coach, like me or a Counselor, or a Pastor. Whatever the goal you have, you need a support system to make that change happen for yourself. Some people look at getting a Coach, etc. as a weakness. However, it’s only the strong people that realize they have a problem that they need help with. But guess what…we all need help. That’s why organizations exist to help people – to further their cause. Wouldn’t it be nice if you enlisted someone to help further your cause? That’s where a Coach comes in!

Change is the hardest thing we will ever do. But…change is all we do! We are always changing. Remember this…Life never stands still – even if you do. There is no such thing as stagnation. Either we are dying or we are growing. There is no middle ground. Make the decision to grow. Make the decision to get the support you need to make the change happen in your life. And by all means…NEVER, EVER give up on yourself!

Inspired Vision’s Point of Power: The change you make today, could lead to the life you want tomorrow!

~Be Inspired and Live You!

-Coach Dwayne L.

Coach Dwayne L. is a Certified Life Coach. Feel free to Follow, Like, Comment, or email him at For more motivation please visit


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