Change is not all the same

Here’s the truth: we all want to improve.  Consequently, in order to improve in anything – we have to change. One of the main facets of life is establishing your personal reasons for change.  There are many reasons to change. However, we want to change for the right reasons. Let’s talk about the two main reasons why people will endure the often lingering process of change.

Do you feel inadequate in some areas of your life? Of course, you do. However, you are not alone. We all feel inadequate in some area. But it’s important to keep those feelings of inadequacy in check to make sure that we change for the right reasons.  Here are two of the main reasons for change.


Jealousy is a powerful cause for change in a person’s life. It is used by numerous people as the only real change agent in their lives. However, when you use jealousy as your change agent, it strips you of the peace and joy associated with your change. Jealousy only promotes change from an external perspective, because the more you change for jealous reasons, the more jealous you tend to get.  What’s worse is that it’s a perpetual process that ultimately leads to you feeling worse off than you started.  Jealousy, will allow you to change, but rest assured…there is a more perfect way.


Now, let’s talk about Love, again.  Love is THE MOST powerful agent of change there is. No matter how many times I post a blog, Love is always in my heart for the people that read the post, and the people that want to improve their lives.  It is, and will continue to be a mainstay in my writings.

First, you have to love yourself, and secondly, you love others. What I mean by that is, love yourself enough in order to give others your best. When you love yourself and love others, you will want to change, and there is nothing you will not give to achieve your goal.  Loving yourself leads to respecting yourself.  Respecting yourself is the key to respecting others. And as your personal change happens, you perpetuate change in others because of the love and respect you exemplify.

There is enough in this world for each of us.  Living a life full of Love vs. Jealousy allows you to rid yourself of competitive tendencies and liberates you to enjoy life.  Simply put, since change is inevitable, you may as well change for the right reason – and love is always the right reason to change.

Inspired Point of Power: Love is Everything.

~Be Inspired and Live You!

-Coach Dwayne L.

Coach Dwayne L. is a Certified Life Coach. Feel free to Follow, Like, Comment, or email him at For more motivation please visit or


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