Comparison is a way of life for those who refuse to live their own life. Truthfully speaking, comparison with other people is a total waste of time. I say that because each of us is a special creation, a gifted creation, and to compare yourself with someone else takes away from just how special you were created to be.
Comparison with others ultimately hold you back from obtaining what you want to accomplish. Real winners in life don’t compare themselves to others. They don’t have to compare themselves, because they know what they bring and do not bring to the table of life.
The basic principle is that you should grow yourself for yourself, by comparing yourself with yourself. You don’t have to use others as a measurement of your success and self-worth. Just do what you do, and let nature take care of itself. Comparison is a very valuable tool when used correctly, but for some reason we use it to our daily detriment.
SO WHAT CAN I DO ABOUT IT?
I am inviting you to break out of that destructive cycle of comparison with others. I am inviting you to start living for yourself only – to challenge yourself like never before in a success adventure by putting all your energy into getting things out of life because you deserve it…and not because you’re comparing yourself with others.
How much time do you have on this earth? The truth of the matter is, no one can answer that question. Mainly because no one knows when their time is up. So, do you want to waste your time living 2nd place to someone else…and using their success as your measuring stick for your life? Of course you don’t. So, right here, right now…decide you’re going to compare yourself with the only person that matters: You.
Inspired Point of Power: Comparison with Self is the only way for real Self Improvement.
~Be Inspired and Live You!
-Coach Dwayne L.
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